Ok, so i really need some advise. Im only asking you because you seem like you’ve gone through this before. people consider me as a straight guy, so did I until I realised just a few months ago that I have more crushes at males than females, if any at all. This is my last year at school and I really want to kiss this guy before I leave, lol I know. he also eyes me like secretively all the time but then again, most guys do. idk what it is, is it because they think I’m weird or they like me? Have you experienced this? so yeah I just wanna do something before I leave but Im scared to death. what if he like punches me? lol FUUUUUUU, thanks for reading!

By branjoseph, January 14, 2011

Well, I haven’t experienced that. Once I knew, I knew- I was never really confused in high school.
And you don’t have to take my advice, you should live your life- if you do the WRONG thing (a bad outcome) it can be a learning and growing experience.

But my advice is to definitely not kiss him or a make an abrupt move. It can be bad for both of you, and yes, he might punch you or freak out or just make your life miserable- even if he is gay and has feelings for you, he might not be ready to deal with his feelings, or even know what they are yet, and he might not be ready for anyone else, even you, to know about them. Also you don’t want to make a really bad memory of your last times at school, then for the rest of your life remembering school will always have that memory. True it could turn out good and it be a great memory but that’s one hell of a risk.

I’d say if you can, just become his friend more, hang out with him, outside of school. But don’t do that solely wanting/expecting him to become romantic with you. Do it so that you can be better friends. Then you can see if feelings develop and surface, but don’t push them, and if they don’t surface, be happy in gaining a new closer friend. 🙂