i’m gay, and i had a bf for quite awhile. now that we broke up. no one else seems to turn me on, i kept fantasizing myself with him in bed, only that i could be satisfied,. i’ve been with some random guy but i feel nothing. what should i DO?

By branjoseph, January 7, 2011

It’s easy to fantasize about someone you already have been with, because it’s not just imagination, it’s memory.

The next random guy that comes along probably isn’t going to get you going as good as your ex did. Chances are you’re just going to have to wait ‘til someone comes along that you are really attracted to, have good sexual chemistry with, and maybe even care about. Maybe it worked with your ex because you cared for him? Or maybe he was just hotter and better sexually than this new guy 🙂